16
Jun
In years of writing and talking to people regarding relationships the biggest mystery to me has been that most single people seem to spend so little effort on their dating lives. They’d tell me that finding a partner is as important as their career or their hobbies, then they’d spend 40 hours a week working, 20 hours watching Netflix, and half an hour swiping on Tinder half-hoping no one would actually match them and expect a message to be written.
People put cybermen search more thought into their brunch order than into composing their online dating profiles.